Got H1N1 Vaccines? October 30, 2009
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I’m not here to discuss whether people should or should not get the H1N1 vaccine. I think there are plenty of good reasons to get it, IE patients with chronic medical problems where getting H1N1 would really knock them out. And there are good reasons not to get it, IE most patients I’ve seen with active H1N1 do just fine.
Either way, my husband and I made a firm decision to get it for our kids and me. I was really hoping to get it before my ER rotation started. And as both my kids are under 5 and need two shots each, we were really hoping to have them get it before we head to China again for the holidays. Not that they are at increased risk of getting it in China, it would just be an extreme inconvenience to be sick while traveling.
Once we’ve made our decisions, next came the hard part. Where in the heck can we get the H1N1 vaccine? We kept calling our doctor’s office (Woodland Healthcare), and they always have the same answer “no and don’t know when.” We called all the pharmacies in the area and got the same response.
Kaiser had both the H1N1 injectable and nasal vaccine for 1-2 weeks prior to anybody else. However, you have to be a Kaiser member. We were willing to pay or even join, but got rejected. It seems to me this was poor planning to distribute a large amount of vaccines in high demand only to a subset of population and not allow any access to other parts of the population that would really need it. What can you do, it’s a private organization and it will take care of its own. (I have my own biases against Kaiser as I have in the past applied for medical insurance when I first got pregnant, obviously for the pregnancy. And I was DENIED for having a medical condition such as pregnancy. My nanny recently broke her collarbone, and while broken collarbone typically don’t need surgeries her Kaiser FP and orthopedic doctor decided she did. One would assume on the basis that her’s might have been more emergent until I heard it was scheduled for a week later.)
Back to the H1N1 vaccine status:
We started following the news and calling county health departments.
Where we live we are close to three counties: Sacramento, Yolo, and Solano.
Sacramento was the first we heard that had the nasal H1N1 vaccine. My daughter qualifies for it but not my son. We decided to wait for the injectables so that they can get it both at the same time and it would be easier to track for us.
Then Yolo County Health Department got their shipment of nasal H1N1 vaccines. My mother-in-law, my husband and I must have called multiple times that day to confirm that I, a medical student, would qualify as a health care worker. I get off work early to drive 50 minutes out of my way to be turned away. They were only giving it to children ages 9 and younger and pregnant women and women with children less than 6 months of age. I was a little annoyed that they answering service was so unprofessional and uninformed, I wasted my time going up there. However, I was okay with being turned away as long as they were prioritizing. I don’t want bad karma following me just because I took a vaccine that belong to a little kid.
Solano County Health Department gets their shipment of nasal H1N1 vaccines and the day before they start their clinics, they also get their injectables. The best part about them is that they have an amazing phone line to call for information. Their website was constantly updated. And a very awesome person that worked in the department that deserves so much kudos, took down my husbands and my names and numbers. She called us every time with updates on the vaccine clinics.
Their first clinic they only had nasal H1N1. I decided to go myself to check it out. I got there maybe 5 minutes after they were supposed to start. It was a very cold and windy day. The line was already maybe 100 people long. I’m very happy I didn’t bring my kids that day, if they weren’t sick, they would have been sick afterwards from just the wind. The clinic got started a little bit late, however, they were extremely efficient once they opened their doors. I got my nasal H1N1 vaccine in about 1 hour. Instead of actively screening like Yolo County was. They were passively screening. They had on a form that listed the criteria for getting the vaccine and this time it included health care workers and specifically said emergency personnel. And it asked that people who do not qualify – please do not ask for a vaccine. Otherwise they did not ask anybody or turned anybody away, except for technical details like getting the nasal seasonal less than 4 weeks ago, etc.
The next day, Solano Health Department was hosting another H1N1 vaccine clinic, this time with both nasal and injectable form. We decided to bring the kids this time. I thought that the line would be perhaps the same, not much worse. I was very wrong. The line outside was very long. My husband went to wait in line while the kids slept in the car and then when they woke up, I took them to a local park. It took maybe 1.5 hours to get to the front of the door. Once inside we got a number, we were 133. They were calling number 85. There were people coughing and sneezing all in the waiting area. So once again we took turns taking the kids outside. This wait wasn’t too bad, maybe 30 minutes.
Our number gets called and we’re thinking, okay very soon now. We go inside and there is yet another line for the injectable vaccines. It is a short line, maybe 20 people, but it was a good 1.5 hour wait. It was hot and stuffy. There was a mother in front of me with 3 kids. She had an older daughter around 6 or 7, a toddler in her right arm and an infant in a carseat in her left arm. She was amazing.
Total time wait for H1N1 injectables would be 1 month by the phone and then 3.5 hours in line. I kept thinking, these poor infants/toddlers waiting so long just to get poked by a needle and this is a good thing?!
Now then next step is to just hope that when it comes time around for their boosters, there will be enough left.
And how ironic is this. My son also needed two shots of the seasonal flu vaccine, being this is the first time he is getting it. I had originally decided to wait to try to get them at the same time – nobody wants to go to the doctors multiple times just for shots. Of course, now, we cannot find seasonal flu shots anywhere. My doctors is out of them, tells us to call local pharmacies. We called every singly pharmacy in the area and many don’t have them, if they do, they do not do pediatric seasonal flu shots.
My husband and I had another heart to heart talk at this point and decided the seasonal flu shot – not as important this year.
Good luck to all those this season dealing with H1N1 madness!
Posting on Craigslist for a Babysitter May 7, 2009
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I decided to post on Craigslist for a babysitter for the summer. I’m going back to school next Monday. Some of the responses I’ve recieved has just been amazingly unprofressional. What are these people thinking? Why would I trust them with my kids?
Here are some examples:
From LuVnYa4Eva (loving you forever): is this job still available? i love children but i do not speak mandarin chinese only english, although my boyfriend does even though that doesn’t count but im really intersted let me know thanks.
- This was the whole email. Did not even provide a name or contact information or any background. Yea, sorry so not leaving my kids with you.
From a Boy GaGa who’s email is crazed3009@
- Yea, sooo not hiring someone who goes by Boy GaGa or calls himself crazed….
And I don’t understand these’s people where their email name and their real name doesn’t match. I’m not going to write her name, since it might be her real name, who knows. But…
dangerwoman81@whatever.. So not letting my kids hang with a dangerwoman81, sorry, but no.
How to find a Chinese Nanny – Craigslist! April 2, 2009
Posted by pjpajamas in family life.Tags: chinese nanny, craigslist, find, finding, how to
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I’d like to think I’m an expert at this, now that we’ve gone through sooo many nannies. I’ve done a lot of searching on what’s the best way to find a good Chinese nanny. The advice in the past have to post in the Chinese newspaper (Renming Ri Bao). Now I say, post on craigslist! It’s cheaper and pretty effective.
We’ve had nannies that came from nanny services. There’s about 6 main companies in the Bay Area. They are for the one month post-partum period and cost about $2600 for 26 days. Each company have their on niche, like basing their practices from Taiwan, and etc.
Those nannies are expensive and don’t make good long-term nannies. It’s hard work being a post-partum nanny, but they do it for the money. And when they are done with the 26 days, they can take a break for as long as they want before they decide to pick up the next contract.
I used to think they were the super-nannies and that they should know a lot about everything. But now I realize that they really are the most opinionated and probably know the least. They are great for that one month old baby, but don’t have much experience in doing much else.
Posting in the newspaper you can find nannies from $1200 to about $1600 and of course even more. The problem is that I live about 2 hours from the Bay Area. When I post, I can get about 20 to up to 50 calls. But as soon as they learn where I’m located, they aren’t as interested. It’s also really hard to to interviews over the phone. Most of them don’t drive. It doesn’t help listing my city, because most of them don’t read English or wouldn’t know still where my city is.
I’ve read before that posting on Craigslist is useless. Since most of these nannies don’t read English. Well I have to say that whichever website I was at then was very wrong.
It is true that the nannies don’t read English, but their children do or their friends.
I’ve been very successful at finally finding a nanny that lives close enough to us that she’s here Monday through Friday and gets a break on weekends.
So try Craigslist!
Fever and Vomiting solved April 2, 2009
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She broke out in a rash. Whew. Thank goodness.
What disease could it be when it’s high fever for a couple of days. Fever leaves and rash comes?
Roseola infantum!
I’ve never been so happy to see a rash. If she hadn’t had two episodes of fever before this, I wouldn’t have been so frantic up to this point.
Fever and Vomiting? April 1, 2009
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Since coming back from China at the end of January, my daughter has been sick 3 times (currently on her third time). I’m getting more and more frustrated each time and I’m running out of theories.
She’s never been one to have high fevers, typically gets low fevers for a couple of days to a week and then starts to get better.
Remarkably in China, she never got a fever. She did have a very serious watery diarrhea for a week, but that resolved on its own.
The first episode since coming back was definitely due to a viral URI. She had low-grade fevers and had all the upper respiratory symptoms of cough and runny nose. Lots of stuff running out her nose. It went away in about a week or maybe two.
She was a week symptom free when all of the sudden the fever returned. Not super high, but not super low either. She didn’t have any of the URI symptoms anymore, JUST fever. And of course feeling very crappish. We had to give her Motrin just to perk her spirits. She was EXTREMELY irritable without it. That went away in a couple of days and we thought, maybe she just never got over the first episode.
But now, I want to say it’s been closer to 2 weeks when her fever came back again. She even had her 2 year old checkup and was very happy with the doctor. Her only shots was a PPD and a hepatitis A vaccine. Both very safe on the side effects of things. Had the shots on Friday. Fever came Sunday night, started low in the 100-101s. Monday night it was all high fevers the whole time, above 103s and Motrin was barely bringing it down to 101. Brought her into see the doctor on Tuesday.
It’s frustrating, because I agree with the doctor that there are no localizing physical signs. This time she was also still a happy kid even with the fever. So we decided to bag her urine. My husband was the one that brought it in and he said that the lab found no evidence of infection, but there might be some trace of blood? I have no idea what that means in terms of “might be?”?
She’s been vomiting, but mostly milk and only when her fever goes past 103, so we are pretty sure it’s due to the fever. She’s not dehydrated. Doesn’t have any other symptoms. It’s really starting to be extremely worrying. I have no idea what’s wrong and it’s very frustrating.
Anybody have any suggestions or clues for us?
It’s Wednesday and if by Friday she’s not perking up, it might be time to draw some blood.
Babies Sick February 23, 2009
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My babies are sick, both of them. Started with a cough. Now it’s a cough and a fever. The older one is also vomiting. The younger one is doing better, maybe because he’s still breastfeeding.
It’s one of those things where my medical knowledge starts to conflict with everything else in my brain.
When do I give acetaminophen? Some website say over 100, some say 103. Who came up with the arbitrary number? Didn’t my school give a lecture about how fevers are really not dangerous?
And then when do I call the doctor? When do I go to the doctor?
If I hadn’t already done an ER rotation, I would probably be at the doctors. But now that I’ve worked in a ER, I know the kid should be really really sick or else we would be waiting around for hours just to be kicked out. On my ER rotation, I pretty much had to kick out all of the pediatric cases that I saw.
Now, why isn’t the doctor calling back?
It’s going to be a couple of long nights…
Adjusting Your Babies Jet Lag February 9, 2009
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My first born is under 2 years of age and she has already been back to China three times. Dealing with jet lag is always a pain, especially when coming back to the US. However, I believe my husband and I are really getting better at it.
This last time was different, because now we have two babies. We’ve looked up the internet on this jetlag issue before and the advice is always to adjust them early, even before you get on the flight. But most of the advice is assuming people are traveling between states, not halfway around the world.
This time, we followed the advice. We let the babies sleep later and later everyday so that they were going to be around 11:30 to midnight. We did this because our flight to China was leaving at 12:30 am. So we figured it’s better that they can stay awake until the plane takes off.
Going to China is 15 hours, coming back is 12 to 13 hours.
Going to China – our bedtime is their afternoon (around 2 to 3 pm). So it’s not that bad. We just go to sleep around 2/3pm and wake up around 2/3 am. And we move that back by 1 to 2 hours everyday. It’s actually kind of nice to finally be an early bird for once.
Coming back is always the hard part. Because now, our bedtime is like 8 am in the morning. It really doesn’t help to go to sleep at 8 am in the morning and then wake up 8 pm at night and just be awake all night. In the past, we’ve also tried to adjust backwards where we made our daughter sleep an hour later each day. That really took a long time to adjust – almost 3 weeks. And it was painful. This time, we adjusted forwards. We would wake our daughter up and hour early each day. This worked so much better. She adjusted pretty much in a week.
We really couldn’t apply the same strategy to our son – the younger one. So that was the tough part. As my daughter got adjusted and he didn’t – I found myself being up all the time. As soon as she fell asleep, he would wake up.
Either way, it hasn’t even been two full weeks and they are both adjusted now and I’m just happy I can get 6 hours of sleep per night.
I think this experience is preparing me for residency.
One Stuffy Nose, One Vomiting Baby October 23, 2008
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Is two kids too much? Especially so close in age? 18 months apart to be exact. I wonder how my parents did it. My sister and I are 2 years apart. It’s almost like going one on one, parents to kids, but not quite. It really is more like the kids over power us.
My newborn baby boy has a chronic stuffy nose. It started about 3 weeks of age. Then it went away for a week and now it’s back. Most of the time is just sounds nasty, and he feeds okay and as long as you prop him up, he sleeps okay too. Other times, it’s very frustrating. It’s a lot of bulb suctioning and nasal drips. And those vaporizers. I made an appointment to see one of my professors and for some OMT and I can’t wait.
My older one recently has been very pukey. Three times today she’s puked up formula. Yes she’s still on it. She was down to one bottle a day. But today, she was calling for it, and not too long after she has it, she pukes.
It’s stressful. What’s more stressful for me, is the other adults in the room freaking out. Gotta maintain control. And not scare the kids.
I guess it’s from my ER rotation I get this from, but I ask right away to myself – “Sick or healthy?” She’s well-hydrated, not feverish –> she’s healthy. Okay, let’s not go to the ER. What would one of my preceptors say if they saw a patient like this. “Keep her hydrated, it’s okay if she doesn’t eat for a couple of days. Use a syringe to feed little bits of gatorade at a time if you have to.” So maybe a trip to the clinic is not necessary as well?
But I’ve decided a long time ago that I don’t want to be the doctor of the family – too much responsibility mixed in one. I just want to be mom.
So we’ll still call the doctor tomorrow just to be safe.
Of course, just to be safe, I threw away the newly opened formula can, just in case there’s preformed toxin sitting in there. And we opened another can. It would really suck though is those cans were packaged together.
Why not to feed zoo animals October 7, 2008
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This was taken while at Beijing Zoo. What you can’t see is the loads of people top left just throwing water, crackers, etc at the bears.
But for kicks – maybe instead – we should throw bits of food at zoo animals? Aren’t they so much more interactive than any zoo you’ve ever been to?
I’m just kidding – don’t feed the the zoo animals – bad habits like these form.
Breastfeeding and it’s full glory October 6, 2008
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Breastfeeding is definitely making it’s comeback.
I kind of feel like it’s a ”damned if you do and damned if you don’t” kind of situation. I honestly do believe breast milk is the best nutrition on Earth for your babies, however, formula is also the next best thing. Meaning, if you don’t end up breastfeeding, you’re baby will do just fine on formula.
With my first baby, everything was going great, we were doing bottle and breast because I was still in school. And then about 5 weeks in I had block exams (a whole week of tests). Because I really really needed to study, I just pumped the whole week and bottle fed the baby. I guess I shouldn’t be shock that my baby lost her latch. So for the next 6 months I pumped. And everyday I saw my milk dwindling to the point where I was pumping all day just for barely a meal’s worth of breast milk for her.
I hate pumping. All you ever hear about pumping is what a great invention for women who need to go back to work. I think – what a terrible invention made by men to force women to go back to work. I seriously hate it.
Anyways, back to breastfeeding. So for this baby – I really wanted to take time off from school to get it down right for at least 7 months.
There are just so many opinions and pressures surrounding breastfeeding. My own mother really believes in in formula feeding, and would love to just see me bulldoze my way through medical school and become a doctor faster. My mother-in-law definitely believes in breast milk and would have me take all the time off that I need. In fact she would have me take more time off for more babies if that was a possibility (I have toyed with the idea). Either way both supports me in whatever decision I make.
I personally wanted to breastfeed, because I felt it was one of the few things that a mother can really do for their baby that’s truly special. Nobody else can do the same. I also feel that if I’m signing up to be away for the next 4-5 years of my babies lives (residency), at least I can do this for my babies.
While it truly is glorious and a wonderful thing, it’s not that amazing in practice. I’ve haven’t had a full night’s sleep, not even a 3 hour sleep, in who knows how long. I wake up every 1 to 2 hour to breastfeed my baby. When I breastfeed, my baby gets sweaty where his skin is touching mine. I have this constant sleep deprived headache that I can keep at bay, but not get rid of. I have no idea how much my baby is getting down. I keep second-guessing myself and my supply of breast milk just to remind myself that he’s growing well. I can’t help but keep feeling his fontanel to see if he’s dehydrated. When I am breastfeeding, it’s like a 30-45 minute ordeal where I can’t help but get bored so I’m becoming a TV junkie. I couldn’t help but feel like I had already failed when we had gone back into the hospital for jaundice and the doctor ordered the baby to be given supplemental formula for those few days.
And that is breastfeeding and it’s full glory…
… I am enjoying every minute of it.
